[ F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!) ]

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F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)

Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff. If you want me to link your thread up here, drop a link in the first comment!

List of threads:

Favorite FSers
Your diehard fandoms
NSFW confession thread
Topics you wish FS would stop wanking about
What do you want FS to talk about more?
(Pan)fandom discussion post
General opinions
Fapping material?
Random rants

Comments

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

It's not disgusting to have needs (rather, it's human) but it's kind of selfish to not make take clear and decisive action with a partner.

If you need sex and he's not willing or able to fulfill that need then he needs to make the choice between letting you go elsewhere to get it or ending the relationship. It's pretty simple, really.

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Ayrt

I'm really selfish because I don't want to break up with him, ever, but I'm beyond jaded, really. When I'm depressed my sex drive is pretty much gone, so it doesn't matter, but when i cycle out of depression into whatever this is where I'm not just hard-up but hypersexual, I get all desperate and start thinking about looking elsewhere. Honestly, he's lucky I'm a ugly, social anxiety ridden fucker because he doesn't really have to worry about me seeking anything out. (That one time was a drunk thing and I quit drinking.) I just whine on the internet and hope that maybe a tumblr mutual will have a chat with me that verges on flirty or gets into rp territory.

I've made my needs clear many, many times, but he's depressed right now too so I can't get too upset since he has no sex drive normally plus depression.

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, first of all, I really don't agree with the idea that you're too ugly or too much of a fucker to ever find anyone else. That's nonsense, okay?

And I don't think it's selfish. It's a frustrating solution and there isn't any easy answer at all - cheating (outside an open relationship) is wrong, breaking up with him is something you clearly don't want to do, and at this point it seems pretty clear he's not going to be able to provide what you want here either sexually or through an open relationship. but there's nothing selfish about wanting a satisfying sex life. it's just frustrating and shitty because life is shitty.

Re: NSFW Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

So don't break up with him.

But you still need to let him know that you have needs that aren't being met, and regardless of what you feel or what the circumstances are, you do have a right to have those needs met in a relationship.

I'm not saying cheat, but I am saying stand up for yourself before it gets to the point where you stop being able to sit around idly and do start cheating. Or you decide to break up with him because you can't take it anymore. Because... really, if it's that bad you aren't going to be able to do this forever. Believe me.