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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-21 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3336 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3336 ⌋

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Re: AYRT, sorry for so many stupid questions!

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-02-21 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Sexual attraction isn't really something other people can define for you. for me, that sounds like sexual attraction, but I am not you!

Words are just words. They're nice to have if we're uncertain, but they don't define us. Do you enjoy having sex with this guy? Are you fully consenting? Are you content and happy in your current sex life? These are the things that really matter. No one can define your sexuality for you, that's all on you. But if nothing is wrong in your sex life, does the word really matter? And if something IS wrong, THEN you should sit down with your partner and figure things out.

Re: AYRT, sorry for so many stupid questions!

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I see! Thanks a lot for talking to me about this - you cleared up some of that confusion I had. :) I think I'll leave labels to those who feel more comfortable with having them, instead of trying to categorize myself when faced with them and then feeling confused and lost.
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Re: AYRT, sorry for so many stupid questions!

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-02-21 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I was worried I was confusing you more, actually, so I'm glad to hear it! There are some other people in this thread who might be able to help out, too. I myself am not Ace, so I could only do my best and hope I was saying the right thing.

I think you have the right idea, though. Unless it's bothering you to not have a label, don't worry about it!