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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-21 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3336 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3336 ⌋

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Re: genuinely confused

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Imagine a guy who socially has sex with women he cares about, and sometimes likes it, and sometimes has fun. Are there any guys who do that and insist on identifying as gay?

Two of my lesbian friends have had longterm sexual/romantic relationships with guys and continued to identify as lesbian. (One of them in a F/M relationship, the other as part of a F/F/M threesome.)

And I have a straight female friend who had a longterm sexual/romantic relationship with another woman, and while I can't read her mind, I definitely believe that she wasn't identifying as straight because of social stigma. Among other things, she was very open about being in a queer relationship: her extended family knew, her friends knew, her coworkers knew, etc.
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Re: genuinely confused

[personal profile] erinptah 2016-02-22 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Then all I can say is that these friends of yours weird me out too.