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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-21 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3336 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3336 ⌋

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Re: genuinely confused

[personal profile] erinptah 2016-02-22 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
So here's a third potential configuration: biromantic homosexual guy, has a girlfriend who likes sex, and will "go through sex for" those girlfriends -- but insists on identifying as gay.

How often does that one happen? Because I swear I've never seen it.

The only time I see people going "you are within my romantic orientation, so I will 'go through sex' for you, but I'm going to continue to identify you as being outside my sexual orientation" is with people who identify as asexual. [ETA: well, and the friends of the anon downthread.]
Edited 2016-02-22 01:27 (UTC)

Re: genuinely confused

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2016-02-22 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
What, you've never seen "gay/lesbian with an exception" in spite of the fact that we get at least three heavily reblogged articles by people who claim that a year?

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Re: genuinely confused

[personal profile] erinptah 2016-02-22 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
We must be following different subsets of Tumblr.

I have seen a couple of people go from "gay/lesbian/straight with an exception" to "you know what, I wasn't sure about a bi/pan identity before, but now I'm going to embrace it."

I wish the discourse would hurry up and evolve a set of labels that mean "interested in x/not interested in y, no exceptions, seriously, none, if I had a different set of interests I would be using a different label."

Re: genuinely confused

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2016-02-22 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
There's more to the LGBT community than tumblr.

For one thing, tumblr seems unusually obsessed with pigeonholing sexualities into rigid categories.
Edited 2016-02-22 12:16 (UTC)