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⌈ Secret Post #3341 ⌋

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Might be offensive/triggery, so putting in a 2nd comment just in case...

Recently I've discovered that I really like it, but I was raised to believe that it's morally wrong and not something 'respectable' women do so I'm feeling guilty and having a really hard time getting past that.

Does anyone else really enjoy it? Have you felt/do you feel guilty/ashamed/weird about it? How did you get past it?

I enjoy it quite a lot and indulge in some anal masturbation on a somewhat regular basis. What I really love is vaginal/anal penetration at the same time though.

I think I felt weird about it at first but...idk, I guess I just eventually realized that anal sex is actually pretty vanilla as far as kinky stuff goes and I stopped caring.

I quite like it. It makes my vag feel empty, but in a good way.

The first time I tried anal with more than a finger was when I was 19. They had free condoms at the health center. I had a dildo back at the dorm, put one of the condoms over it, and gave it a shot. I went a little too fast, but didn't dislike it.

Later when I got better at being patient, I had fun. I've tried figging (not for me), dp (two toys and butt plug + penis, yes though I found I prefer one hole or the other), and rimming (yes).

I never had trouble with admitting I liked anal, but I did with liking spanking. I remember thinking things like "Am I a bad modern woman for liking the idea of being put over a guy's knee?"

The way I got over it was reading and watching fictional and real life people talk about how much they enjoy it. Both the people giving and receiving. Eventually I got the courage to ask and much fun was had by all.

Get it!

Good grief. Yes. This definitely falls into the catagory of if it feels good, do it.

I'm a guy, but one of my female lovers ADORES anal.

people who use the word "lovers" 😒

NAYRT

What's wrong with the term lovers? From the structure of the sentence it doesn't seem like they're married or dating (and even some people frown on the use of bf/gf if you're ~too old~) so lover seems an appropriate term if there's sex happening between them...

https://video.yahoo.com/love-ahs-hot-tub-000000900.html

b/c you end up sounding like this

Not sure what 'this' sounds like, cause that video isn't available in my region. XD

Love it, but I can't advise you on the weirdness and getting past it, anon. I was never given that line of bullshit, and while I admit I first tried it for science after reading too much slashfic, the important thing I learned was that it's great and I like it and hell yes.

At least you know where the lie is? I mean, it's not morally wrong.

I wish I knew.

But for me it's not so much guilt about the anal itself but the fact that vaginal sex does nothing for me but I love anal, so there's all this shame about how I'm "doing it wrong" and basically failing as a woman. Like, if you have a vagina but you'd rather have anal sex instead, clearly there's something wrong with you. I've tried to stop the anal sex and only do it the "right" way but I've never been able to succeed at that.

I feel like my options are either to stop doing it (which, like I said, I've tried and failed at) or do it and continue to feel like a freak because of it. I don't know what the answer is.

I hope you don't feel ashamed forever. Like, the thought of anal kind of makes me cringe, but it's no-one's business but yours and any sexual partner(s) you have which hole you like to be fucked in, and I hope none of the "failing as a woman" stuff was coming from a partner. People do all kinds of stuff to get their rocks off, and it's all good so long as it's consensual.

I've never had it and don't really want to, but I also wasn't raised to think that anal sex, or any sex, is wrong, certainly not morally wrong, unless it's nonconsensual. Basically, things are immoral if they hurt someone and aren't if they don't. How does your liking anal hurt anyone? If it makes you feel good and it's with a consenting partner, go for it.

I don't find anal at all pleasurable, but I'm into other things that some people find immoral, and it's helped me to remind myself that there are people out there who find all female sexuality immoral, and if their opinions aren't worth a heap of raccoon turds, neither are the opinions of the people who judge my kinks.

As long as everyone involved is consenting and fully informed of the situation, you're not doing anything wrong. Which is something that'll take a while to internalize, so keep at it, and talk to your lover so you're both aware of each other's headspace.

I enjoy it, and I think 90% of my enjoyment comes from the fact that it *is* traditionally considered dirty and wrong.

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