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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-04 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3348 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3348 ⌋

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Re: Relationship question

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-03-05 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Adding to this, it's probably not a good idea to do this at the last minute. And - in fact, I forgot to put this in my own comment - you should probably plan ahead in general for when she will stay the weekend. Her showing up at the last minute with all her shit when you thought you'd be alone sucks, but it also sucks for her to think she'll be staying the weekend and then be turned down. Basically, say in advance, "I'm not up for you staying the weekend this week" and at that point if she brings all her shit to your door it's on her.

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Excellent point.

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
So much agreement. TBH, I think it's a little presumptuous of the girlfriend to just show up with all her stuff and assume that she can stay the weekend without making plans for it first.

Re: Relationship question

(Anonymous) 2016-03-05 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
This. I'd let her know a few days in advance, long enough where she has time to make her own plans. Every protest should be met with "I'll see you Monday, love you, babe!" etc. and "You do whatever you want, but I need a weekend to myself to recharge. I love you."

Don't text constantly, maybe a couple times a day if that. "Hope you're having a good weekend, I love you!" "I saw this cute photo of a turtle eating a strawberry and thought of you, I love you!"

Don't let her manipulate you, OP. Otherwise you won't have a relationship, you'll have a dysfunctional co-dependent relationship.