[ SECRET POST #3357 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3357 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

The thing is, though, if it were something psychology based (as opposed to genetic based), it wouldn't be something like "trust issues." We'd literally be talking about who I am as a person.

I mean, this is an uncomfortable example, but it's sort of like how there's no treatment for psychopathy. Because what you need to do there is change who that person is as a person. You would literally have to crawl back through the years to when they were just becoming a person - at six months old and two years old and five years old and eight years old - and change the circumstances that cause that person's propensity for psychopathy to become realized.

Well, I'm relatively certain that in order to change the nature of my sexuality, that same impossible feat would have to occur. Because we're not talking about a really bad one-time trauma that happened when I was eight and already halfway formed - something to be rooted out and addressed and made peace with. We're talking about the utterly constant circumstances of my becoming a person from the time I was six months to the time I was fifteen. You can't root that out, address it and make peace with it, because it is who you are.

Which is why the whole "Is your sexuality genetic or is it down to some kind of disorder/trauma?" question has always kind of stuck me as somewhat useless. Because it doesn't really matter; it's who I am either way.