[ SECRET POST #3360 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3360 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Niche]


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03.
[Rush Hour 1, 2, 3]


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04.
["The Bride Was A Boy" manga]


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05.
[J.K. Rowling]


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06.
[Pretty Little Liars]


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07.
[Twin Peaks]


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08.
[The Walking Dead/The Flash]


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09.
(GIRLS)


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10.
[The Grinder]


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11.
[Pokemon]


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12.
[Lord of the Rings]


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13.
[Babylon 5, Tolkien, Star Wars, Harry Potter]


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14.
[Star Wars: The Force Awakens]


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15.
[Pete Seeger]









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 032 secrets from Secret Submission Post #480.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Do you think depression can ruin you?

[(Anonymous)]

I don't care if I've killed the happy me. I care if I've killed the boy my girlfriend loved.

Re: Do you think depression can ruin you?

[diet_poison]

You sound like me except gender-swapped. :(

I don't think my ex wants anything to do with me now. I was a little shit and I know depression contributed to that though it doesn't excuse it. I've changed a lot for the better on the long road to recovery, and am in a much better place now, which is what leads me to believe you can too! But it was too late to save that relationship. I want a chance to apologize to him, but I wouldn't blame him for never wanting to give me the time of day. :/

Re: Do you think depression can ruin you?

[kallanda_lee]

I'm in the same situation and I'm so, so sorry for my boyfriend. But the thing is I was depressed before, and I don't see it as it 'changing" me so much as 'bringing other aspects of me to the front'. The unfortunate thing is that most of the people i know now (including bf) see the undepressed me as the "real' me, but frankly that's not true either - I'm both, and the depressed version is no less me than the other.

I think, to answer your question - I don't think it can ruin you, but unfortunately, I do think it can ruin your relationship and I don't have the answer, either. Just be honest with your girlfriend.

You're not ruined, and it's possible to go back, in part, to who you were before - but fact is experience changes you, some for the good, some for the bad.