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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-19 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #3363 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3363 ⌋

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Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[personal profile] philstar22 2016-03-19 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)
And some asexual people have sexual relationships.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not even going to get into that. The point is, being asexual does not make you queer, period. Appropriating the struggles of actual queer people is not okay.
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Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[personal profile] philstar22 2016-03-19 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Why not? They deal with discrimination based on their sexuality (or in this case lack thereof). If anything asexual fits better than transgendered which would be better as its own category since they are discriminated based on gender and deal with different discrimination than gay/lesbian/bi people do.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
What the fuck kind of discrimination do asexuals deal with? Did I miss all those years when asexuals could not marry? or when asexual night clubs were attacked and their customers beaten? The "scared into sex" camps by Christian groups?

Or by discrimination do you mean, "One time someone told an asexual that maybe they just need to find the right partner to enjoy sex."

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-20 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
Corrective rape.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-20 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
That's not something exclusive to asexuals though. It happens to lesbians (because clearly they need to be taught to like dick) and to women who don't want to put out in general.

It's not about their sexuality, it's about the fact that they aren't sexually available to that person.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-20 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
can you name a time when corrective rape was carried out against a male asexual?

or could it be that corrective rape for asexual women is because they're women?

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-20 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
fuck off, gay and transgender people built the modern LGBT movement, when people say trans people "don't belong" or "don't fit" they only show their ignorance of gay rights history
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Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[personal profile] philstar22 2016-03-20 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
I do think they belong, because I think the movement is about both sexuality and gender expression. But I think asexuals also belong and I disagree with the idea of excluding them.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
then what the fuck does asexual mean

fucking your partner and you don't care for sex doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Not desiring sex =/= being repulsed by sex. You might not get any cravings for Chinese food but you're fine with eating it because it's your partner's favorite. Left on your own you'd never go to the place but you don't mind it.

How is this terrible and unhealthy?

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt but I can't really sympathize with the alleged struggles of asexuality if you're cool with having sex but just don't desire it much. like, why even label yourself.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't claim any struggles, so I can't answer that for you.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[personal profile] solticisekf 2016-03-19 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
you can probably read on that if you're interested.
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Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[personal profile] philstar22 2016-03-19 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't speak for all asexual people. I do know some who will have sex with their partners even though they are not interested in sex themselves. They feel that their partner does just as much stuff for them they aren't interested in and love their partners and want to give them what they want as well.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

(Anonymous) 2016-03-19 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Based of what I've seen asexual means cannot get a date and is angrily screaming that "fine, I didn't want one anyway because I'm asexual". Usually followed by an angry rant on why they are owed sex in some way.