[ SECRET POST #3363 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3363 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[(Anonymous)]

I am starting to feel like asexuality IS a thing, but it's not the thing that most people who label themselves asexual have, if that makes any sense. Like, asexuals exist (the ones who prefer to not be in relationships), but the ones who label themselves as heteroromantic demisexual gray ace, or the ones who are asexual but in a relationship and doing it with someone consensually on a regular basis... aren't.

What I don't get is why it has become such an unpleasant idea to simply be gay or straight, that now you have to promote yourself as asexual while living as a sexual person.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[dahli]

I think that sexuality as a whole is a very different kinds of gray (or colors), rather than a black and white thing.

Also don't forget bisexuals! But yes, I think using that that many labels end up being more confusing than helpful. Sometimes being gay or straight or whatever with certain inclinations is okay.

Also personally I use the ace label for myself very loosely and honestly would rather not use labels at all. It just ends up being annoying and confusing for myself and others. Also I dislike parading my sexuality around, but that's just me.

Re: Man these secrets are boring today

[(Anonymous)]

This, plus it totally ignores the fact that varying levels of sex drives are a natural and normal thing. Some people want/need a lot of sex, some don't want/need much at all. Having a low sex drive doesn't mean you're asexual, it just means you have a low sex drive. And that's fine.