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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-21 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3365 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3365 ⌋

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Re: suicide cw

(Anonymous) 2016-03-22 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
That's not always true. My mom knew this guy who had been depressed for years, and I mean more than 15 years here. In the end he killed himself because no matter how much he tried his depression never went away.

So yep, usually things get better but not always.

Re: suicide cw

(Anonymous) 2016-03-22 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah but even when you struggle with depression for years you have ups and downs. It's not like you can cure it. I was diagnosed with depression twenty years ago and I've had good years and bad years but on the whole I'm just glad I'm alive to read books and watch tv and drink coffee. Some times it's the really tiny things that give me happiness and hey I'll take it. Air conditioning on a hot day. Swimming in a pool. The smell of eucalyptus trees. I'd just rather be alive than dead.

Re: suicide cw

(Anonymous) 2016-03-22 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, you're an asshole.
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

Re: suicide cw

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-03-22 06:22 am (UTC)(link)
You can say that. Some people would say giving people false hope is an asshole thing to do. There's a reason /r/suicidewatch has the rule "Please, never make promises to our vulnerable OPs that you personally can't keep. This means not saying "it gets better" or guaranteeing any outcomes!"

I've seen people get suicidally depressed people pumped up with a bunch of optimistic enthusiasm, but then it usually falls flat because nothing has actually been done for the depressed person or changed in their life, and then they feel even worse.

Depressed people don't need to be lied to and they don't need their trust broken. That doesn't help them.