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⌈ Secret Post #3366 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Venting Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I honestly don't know how I will ever function in normal society. I'm a burden and can't do the most normal of things. I'm on my way to being a completely friendless hermit.

Re: Venting Thread

[sparrow_lately]

Hon, what's up? You're never a burden

Re: Venting Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I can't drive, I can't hold down a job, I'm graduating university after all my peers are and am majoring in something useless anyway, I have no practical skills, no skills in hobbies/things I enjoy either, I can't communicate with anyone professionally without having an anxiety attack, I've lost all but 2 of my friends, one of which lives hundreds of miles away and the other of which blows me off all the time, and I know I'm probably mentally ill but I can't even read a guide on how to get a therapist without getting dizzy and nauseous.

so yeah I am a burden i contribute nothing to society

Re: Venting Thread

[sparrow_lately]

Oh friend :(

You need to be gentle with yourself. A lot of these things are not at all unconquerable. I think therapy might be a good idea. I don't know what your situation is exactly, but maybe a friend (even the one who lives a long way away!) could help you take steps to find some help.

I'm sorry you feel this way :(

Re: Venting Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I have a hard time physically talking to people, so like? Idek how a friend could help me with therapy. I guess i could hypothetically get someone to make all the phonecalls for me which already feels like asking way too much, but I don't see how I could ever interview therapists or even like... get there on my own without having a breakdown. There is a lot of time to have a panic attack when you have to walk everywhere you go.

I haven't been to a doctor in four years cause they scare me so much, basically.

Re: Venting Thread

[sparrow_lately]

What if you just emailed/called/however you generally communicate with your friend and said "hey this is where I'm at. can you help me look into a good, safe way to take some positive steps?"

Also there are texting and online therapy options. I can't speak to their quality but enough exist it's definitely worth some research

Re: Venting Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Oh hey, you're not alone. I've got a half-time job and I'm finishing my bachelor's ten years late, but I haven't made a friend since grade school and I'm not sure how. Like, I'm so bad at socializing my life feels like a cringe-comedy, when it doesn't feel like the last episode in a multigenerational saga of addiction and abuse.