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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-22 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #3366 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3366 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-23 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
That's pretty common. A friend of mine used to joke that the two bisexual stereotypes are the bi guy who's actually just straight-up gay but maintains just enough interest to cover, and the bi girl who loves reblogging pictures of sexy women, but always settles down with a man. I told her: "So, your theory is that lots of people want to fuck women, but nobody wants to get emotionally involved with women unless they literally have no other choice?"
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-03-23 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Interesting...what did she say?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-23 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
She just laughed. :)

(Anonymous) 2016-03-23 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
Interesting. I'm an ace person reading this thread, and something about your comment hits home for me. I'm not really interested in having sex with anyone...but I'd love to settle down someday and having an emotional involvement and committed relationship with a woman that doesn't involve sex. I can't really say the same about the man, even though I used to identify as straight before I figured out the whole "yeah, no, I'm never actually going to want to have sex someday, not even with him."

Honestly that would be like a huge deal to me, to have a woman I could love in a romantic but non-sexual way, and who loved me back. It seems pretty impossible tbh. But I'd love to get emotionally involved with a woman anod not have my heart break because we're just friends and she's done with me anyway. Or because she's into sex and I'm not.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-03-23 02:10 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not impossible since I am 100% sure there are many other women out there like you! But it may be a bit harder to find them. I hope you do!
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[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2016-03-23 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
"bi girl who loves reblogging pictures of sexy women, but always settles down with a man."

TBF that could be for a lot of reasons. "settling down with a man" doesn't make someone not bi. It just means they chose a partner. I see this with a lot of people on tumblr who categorize bi people with opposite sex partners as no longer being bisexual and that kinda misses the entire point of what bisexuality is.

Personally I'd love to be able to try dating a woman but I can't really do it, because my family would not be cool with it at all. I couldn't even tell anyone but one of my siblings who lives away from home.
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2016-03-23 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
Oh dang.