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⌈ Secret Post #3368 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How are you sexually dysfunctional?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

While the title did say "sexually dysfunctional", the comment said "Air your secret or not so secret sexual shame" so I figured it qualified.

I hate being a virgin, honestly. And I hate that I'm not only not currently in a relationship but will likely never be in one. However, I hate my body more, so I don't feel like I can even go about finding a one-night-stand, forget trying to find a relationship. (Hence the knowledge that I will likely never be in a relationship.)

Re: How are you sexually dysfunctional?

[(Anonymous)]

No, that's okay, I wasn't trying to be dismissive.

I'm sorry you feel that way about it. I know that virgins your age do enter first time relationships, and personally know a 31 year old who was a virgin before her first relationship at that age. I also know several people who have been partnerless most of their lives (not by choice) who are nevertheless happy and have busy social lives.

But you've probably heard a lot of these types of reassurances before. I wish you luck in finding happiness and contentness in whatever form it takes for you.

Re: How are you sexually dysfunctional?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT
I have heard stuff like that before, but thanks!

Re: How are you sexually dysfunctional?

[(Anonymous)]

You could hire someone? Definitely not for everyone, but I have heard some people say hiring someone they could lose it to helped them build up sexual confidence and was a good way to get it over with, if that's what you want to do.

You could also always see a therapist to maybe discuss your self esteem issues.

Re: How are you sexually dysfunctional?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT
Thanks for the advice, but that wouldn't be for me. I still wouldn't feel comfortable. And it's not that I necessarily mind my inexperience. I just wish I were in a place where I were in a relationship. And lacking that, I wish I at least had had the experience of a full relationship at some point. It's rather lonely as my life is now.

And I would love to see a therapist, but I can't afford to. Plus, a lot of the self-esteem issue is my weight, and that's not changing unless I somehow get a better paying job that is fewer hours and less exhausting so I have the money to buy healthy food and the energy and time to make it. (And the energy and time to exercise.) But, again, thanks.