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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-26 04:03 pm

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Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Is a Donkey punch an assault or a sexual assault? Assuming the sex is consensual, but the punch is not.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess a sexual assault, because it has a sexual motive.

If you just randomly got really angry at your partner while fucking them and punched them in the head, that would just be assault though, I think.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
i think it would be both?

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Technically? just assault. But I'm ok with considering it a rape and having the legal system act accordingly. Guys who do that are scum.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Wtf is a donkey punch? Punching someone in the ass?

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Punching someone (without their knowledge that you are about to do so) in the back of the head/neck so that their asshole/vagina tightens up.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
WTF that's horrible

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Thats men.

Not Radfem, btw, I'm actually a guy myself. We're fucking vile.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
No, and shut up.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
After reading the anon below I'm inclined to agree with you.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
Jesus, you could KILL SOMEONE doing that!

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
If it is not discussed prior, I would consider it assault.

I have had sexual acts done to me during sex that were extreme, and that I did not consent to* - unplanned anal (I ended up having to go to the hospital) and choking, and in both cases, I considered it sexual assault. Not assault I could pursue legal action for, but I sure as hell felt assaulted. If someone donkey punched me, I know that I would feel the same. A punch without permission is a punch without permission, in the bedroom or outside.

*And which completely changed the way I live my sex life. No more one-night stands, only trustworthy bootycalls who I have built sexual rapport with and have a mutual understanding with me about what we are/aren't down for unless it's been discussed.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Jesus, that's horrible. Sorry that happened to you :(

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Is this actually a thing that happens or just one of those things that people totallllyyyy do.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Seems like it would be a billion times easier to ask you partner to clench down, if it's about pleasure, so I think it's mainly an urban myth, like a thing dumb boys brag about doing to their friends. Maybe some psychos do it to get off on the power of forcing someone's body to do something they don't want to do, kind of a semi-rape thing where they can get the high of controlling another person's body for their own pleasure without having the guts to actually rape them.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Also, there are other, less extreme types of pain play that have the same effect.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
It's both. It's a sexual act that wasn't consented to, since consenting to sex is not consenting to literally anything your partner could conceive of that might fall under a sexual umbrella (up to and including insertion of said umbrella), which makes it sexual assault. It's harmful physical contact, which makes it assault.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
Never heard of this before and now all I want to read is fanfic of NC donkey punch

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
If you have to ask, I hope you get a Philips head screwdriver in the temple, you piece of dogshit.

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
lol

Re: Donkey Punch

(Anonymous) 2016-03-27 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
still being a useful information for me, goddamnit....