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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-27 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3371 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3371 ⌋

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belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: I have a bit of a creepy request:

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-03-28 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
Look, I'm not going to go all crazy SJW on you. People are turned on by different things. I get that. If consenting adults make that porn, as far as I'm concerned it's okay.

Just be aware that you're talking about people. People who generally do not like other people to call them "cripple" or "wheelchair-bound" because wheelchairs aren't horrible prisons, we use them to maintain independence and be more mobile. Wheelchair user is probably the most widely accepted term if you're not actually trying to be rude. What we call ourselves and tell our friends to call us is not as nice to hear from complete strangers who may not be in on the joke.

Also, from what I hear it's more common in porn (just like in other films) to have able bodied actors and actresses playing disabled roles. Generally devotees or fetishists prefer one type of disability or impairment over others. I know Mandy Morbid and Lyric Seal are both wheelchair users who make porn. I don't know if either of them make fetish-specific porn.

Lastly, because you seem new to this, and I am feeling old to this today:
It is not okay to take pictures of wheelchair users without their consent. Following someone around in public and then posting that picture as a "sighting" along with the location is creepy as fuck. For the love of god stay away from people who think this is normal behaviour.

Re: I have a bit of a creepy request:

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
It is not okay to take pictures of wheelchair users without their consent. Following someone around in public and then posting that picture as a "sighting" along with the location is creepy as fuck

It really shouldn't surprise me that people do that but holy shit, that's a special level of skeevy. Ugh
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: I have a bit of a creepy request:

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-03-28 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
I've been harassed and had pictures taken of me before on public transport when I wasn't using mobility aids and it was definitely not okay, but something about having someone know that you're vulnerable and target you specifically because of that is pretty horrifying.

Re: I have a bit of a creepy request:

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
DA I'm sorry, this is probably late for you because I'm on a different timezone but

JESUS CHRIST. I can't believe people do that. That's sickening and it must be really fucking terrifying.

To what end?!
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: I have a bit of a creepy request:

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-03-28 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, believe it. There are entire communities of people who encourage each other to post pictures. Actually the requirement to join some groups is to send them photos first. You can google if you want to feel ill. I only scrolled through one and some guy was saying he stalked a girl with a prosthetic leg through a park and uhh... he choked the chicken in the bushes.
Nope nope nopedy nope.

I have heard some horror stories in support groups. There are apparently devotees who are respectful and upfront about what they want, but I guess they're not the ones I hear about.

I struggle to keep a regular sleep cycle so you actually caught me at an awake time. I haven't been sleeping until 6am or so for a few weeks which means I miss FS in the mornings. :(