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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-28 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3372 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3372 ⌋

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Re: How the fuck do you comfort crying women?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Mostly bc men tend to not want anyone to see them when they cry.

Re: How the fuck do you comfort crying women?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-28 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a woman and I HAAAAAATE to have other people see me cry.

Seriously, just -- leave me the fuck alone. I don't need the pressure of somebody trying to get me to STOP CRYING ALREADY on top of whatever I'm upset about.

(Obviously this is a YMMV situation. Maybe try ASKING the person who is crying/upset what you can do to help?
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Re: How the fuck do you comfort crying women?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-03-28 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a woman and when I'm crying I tend to crave the company of one or two particular people (not always the same people) but everyone else can fuck off ESPECIALLY strangers or people I don't know really really well.

Strangers trying to comfort me is the worst.

Re: How the fuck do you comfort crying women?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-29 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a woman and the only people I let see me cry are my SO and my mother. If I ever cry in a situation around anyone else I definitely want to be left alone.