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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-05 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #3380 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3380 ⌋

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(frozen comment) Re: Trap vs reverse trap

(Anonymous) 2016-04-06 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
Well, first, I would argue that your argument is true of objectification but not of fetishization - because fetishization is by definition only caring about someone or something in their dimension as the fetish-object. I agree that objectification is not bad in and of itself but fetishizing people really kind of pretty much is.

Second, I would argue that the specific word here - and the way of looking at gender and attraction it comes out of - is pretty much irreperably tied to that kind of fetishizing view and is kind of... probably not really salvageable? I don't think it's some kind of neutral word that appreciates someone's physical qualities while also respecting their multi-dimensionality and agency.

(frozen comment) Re: Trap vs reverse trap

(Anonymous) 2016-04-06 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
So would a "trap kink" be okay with you, since it's not all or nothing sorta deal like a "trap fetish"?

(frozen comment) Re: Trap vs reverse trap

(Anonymous) 2016-04-06 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
I think the language is still fucked but the underlying sexual kink is whatever

(frozen comment) Re: Trap vs reverse trap

(Anonymous) 2016-04-06 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

taking "trap" to mean "boy who looks a like a girl" and ignoring the implications of the term since that's a different issue