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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-07 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3382 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3382 ⌋

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Re: OCD Anon, signing off

(Anonymous) 2016-04-08 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
but the thing is, you don't KNOW anything about this anon. They are anon. There is nothing in their post to indicate they are against or not getting help.

And you seem ignorant to how many people say "get help" with the tone of dismissing or delegitimizing someone's actual issues, so yeah. It can come off as rude, even if it wasn't intended that way.

Re: OCD Anon, signing off

(Anonymous) 2016-04-08 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Usually anons talking about an issue like this will mention either that they are seeing someone about the issue, that they can't get help for x/y/z reason(s). That's a big clue, and also something people do to signpost 'hey, you don't need to tell me I need help, I know'.

Tgis OP didn't. Therefore, to cover all the bases, it is reasonable for commenters to suggest the OP get help if they aren't already.

Frankly, it's pretty dismissive and deligitimising of you to suggest that that the users and anons suggesting OP get help are doing so patronisingly, considering the amount and breadth of mental issues the commenters on this forum grapple with.