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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-11 05:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #3386 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3386 ⌋

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Bit early today, sorry!

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Re: Do you think we're more hostile to guys than girls?

(Anonymous) 2016-04-12 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
That's all fair enough, but you're right it's not what I'm asking. Maybe my fault for being too vague. Can I ask what gender was put on your birth certificate? Or possibly, a better way of putting it, if I had asked you your gender before you realised you were NB, what would you have said?
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

Re: Do you think we're more hostile to guys than girls?

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-04-12 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
if I had asked you your gender before you realised you were NB, what would you have said?

I've known I wasn't a boy or girl since I was a very small child, for as far back as I can remember. The best way to ask (imo) is "What gender were you assigned at birth?".

But I won't answer that question to random people. There are too many people out there that think it's okay to deliberately misgender me as my birth-assigned gender if I let it be known. Whether because they're genuinely transphobic or just trolling.