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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-14 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #3389 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3389 ⌋

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eleganceliberty: (Ermac)

Re: Inspired by #7

[personal profile] eleganceliberty 2016-04-14 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Too many to count. But if you want a specific example, well...

I once knew someone -I won't say who they were or what fandom this was for- who was extremely high maintenance and got on the bad sides of a lot of people in this fandom for a variety of reasons, the biggest being their obsession with a certain genre of romance. We were friends at the time, so me being me, I stuck up for them and tried to get people to back off (politely) and even stuck by them when they pissed off someone important.

Then a few years ago, they got pissed off because I got interested in something they, in no uncertain terms, had no interest in, and proceeded to throw me under the bus, complete with passive-aggressive remarks and everything. Keep in mind, I did my best to put up with stuff they were into that I had no interest in, because I didn't want them to feel bad for liking something I didn't. (I'll admit, I am not a spotless lamb in this regard in the past, which is why I bit my tongue this time) I wasn't surprised they did this -they exhibited similar behavior to another friend of theirs-, but it still stung like hell, especially after a particularly catty remark on some birthday gift art they did for me.

I quietly cut them out of my life and I haven't spoken to them in years. I don't wish them ill, not in the slightest. I still remember the good times and creative synergy we had. But I'd rather not ever deal with them again if I can help it.
Edited 2016-04-14 23:40 (UTC)