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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-14 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #3389 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3389 ⌋

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Re: Inspired by #7

(Anonymous) 2016-04-14 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I moved out with a good friend of mine who was known for being pretty flaky and not emotionally stable, but she made it seem like she was growing up and getting her shit together and even though everyone thought it was a terrible idea I was like, "She just hasn't had a chance to prove herself! Just watch! She'll do fine!"

Skip forward to a year later when she's lost two jobs in three months for attendance issues after she swore to me she was going to get better about showing up for work. I made the mistake of telling her that I felt like she didn't care about how her actions were affecting me and that I couldn't afford to hold her up for very long.

Basically she blamed she of emotionally manipulating her and actively trying to make her start cutting again and blamed me for being the reason she couldn't hold down a job because I was apparently a terrifying, potentially violent monster who she still wanted to be friends with for some reason??

I got out of that apartment and friendship as fast as I could and you bet I'm not putting my ass on the line to help anyone else prove how changed they are anytime soon.