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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-04-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3393 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3393 ⌋

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Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-19 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I was thinking that number was significantly inaccurate also. The vague-enough drunk question especially sounds like it would pad the numbers to a large degree - even people like my partner and I would have added to those numbers by accident.

I think the real numbers are somewhere in between, but I don't know what they are.

Re: TW Rape

(Anonymous) 2016-04-19 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
This is my major beef with the survey: drunk sex does not automatically equal rape. It's entirely possible to be drunk but still sober enough to give informed consent for a sexual encounter because there's a huge spectrum of drunkenness between "tipsy" and "blackout drunk/so out of it you don't know what's going on." And then there are also situations like the one you mentioned, where it's between two people in a relationship and even though explicit consent wasn't given, it was neither unexpected nor unwanted. It's not a black and white matter.