[ SECRET POST #3400 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3400 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[The Secret of Crickley Hall]


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03.
[Longmire]


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04.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiKj0Z_Xnjc]


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05.
[Great British Bake Off]


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06.
[The West Wing]


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07.
[Kim Possible]


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08.
(Free! Iwabi Swim Club)


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09.
[Hyper Light Drifter]


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10.
[Sword of Truth]


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11.
[Count Cain/Godchild and Kuroshitsji]


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12.
[Discworld]


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13.
[assassination classroom]


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14.
[Monster Pop!]


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15.
["Magical Diary: Horse Hall" and "Harry Potter”]


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16.
[Silmarillion]


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17.
[Once Upon a Time]








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 084 secrets from Secret Submission Post #486.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

1) There's no way to get her to stop without the risk of offending her.

2) But honestly, you shouldn't worry about offending her because protecting her precious feelings isn't your job.

Is this person a co-worker, family member, friend, or what? As in, is this a relationship you need to maintain or want to maintain? If it is, I'd try a brief come-to-Jesus talk first.

"[Name], you have a lot to say about how I should change my appearance, but I'm fine with how I look and I'm not in the market for any advice, no matter how well meant. So I'd like for us to take topics like my hair, my clothes, etc. off the table for discussion, thanks."

"[Name], we talked about this, remember? Please don't comment on my hair or clothes, thanks."

Get used to make abrupt changes of subject. I'm not sure I'd even acknowledge her "suggestions" or criticism anymore. Just say something like, "Uh huh. OMG, did you see Game of Thrones last night?" "Okay. Hey, I tried this amazing new cheese and it rocked my world..."

Do it each and every time. Rob her of the reward of engaging you in conversation about why you should wear this vs. that, because you're not going to discuss it with her, ever. Not even once. Every time you change the subject in an obvious and awkward fashion, it'll be a little smack on the wrist to her. If you can, combine it with a slow fade. If she behaves herself, you can have a conversation. If she doesn't, she gets a verbal smack on the wrist and a change of subject, and if she won't quit, you leave the conversation.

This isn't a female version of PUA. She's just an interfering busybody.