[ SECRET POST #3402 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3402 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, re: the break up, I don't think they have to go into detail or engage in a debate, but giving a brief reason might help the break up. Because the boyfriend is probably gonna ask why and I feel like (depending on what kind of person he is) he might be even less willing to let it go with no answer. Even if its just a vague one like "we want different things" or "we aren't compatible", that is my 2 cents.

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, I still care about him and this isn't like a short-term thing, we've been together, long-distance, for a few years. Don't you think I owe him an explanation? It'd be cruel to say "this isn't working, kbai" after so long and leave him agonizing over what it could be. Because I know him, he will agonize to death.

I just want to part on decent terms and reason it out, like "are you sure you're not bored? We have nothing in common anymore. And there's such and such other factors." Even though I've asked repeatedly about these things and he's always like "nope! You're not boring! And we like this show, that's what we have in common."

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ayrt

You know him better then I (obviously), and if you want to explain it to him then you should. I think above anon is just concerned that giving him an explanation would seem like you are making the break up negotiable, but you can explain and not do that imo.

I don't know if I would ask if he's bored though or try and make him come to the same conclusion as you before you do it. You know his answer to that - and you have a different answer, and in the end you have to do what is best for you. I would be polite but direct. You know, try not to let it escalate, but explain your case - that you don't want the same things anymore and you think him putting you on a pedestal is unhealthy.