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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-14 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3419 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3419 ⌋

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[Shingeki no Kyojin]


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["Seitenkango, Shinyuu to" by Eroe]
















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Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
It is so, so annoying that you bring gender into this for literally no reason. I get that you are trying to get a reaction out of someone, but jeez. Are you the anon from above who was causing trouble?

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
NA

It usually is that particular dynamic and gender, tho. I know it's not really a gendered issue because women can do it, but you have to admit men do do it so much more than women.

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Whether or not men do it more, has literally no bearing on the definition of gas lighting.

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe, but it might help contextualize what it actually is, rather than giving a bland dictionary description.

But maybe I'm just being overly charitable.

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-14 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Is it? I honestly had no idea, and I'm a cis woman. Have there been studies or surveys? (I can't imagine an ethical way to do a study or getting an honest response to survey questions, tbh.)

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 09:52 am (UTC)(link)
When it's been done to me, it was by a woman, but I'm a straight man, so I have sampling bias.

AYRT just believes what they want to believe whether or not they can back it up.