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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-14 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3419 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3419 ⌋

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[Shingeki no Kyojin]


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["Seitenkango, Shinyuu to" by Eroe]
















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Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
I've said all but the last on that list of gaslighting speech. I genuinely want to kill myself now.

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
None of those examples are inherently gaslighting. For it to be gaslighting, you have to be deliberately attempting to make them doubt their memory of something that actually happened.
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Re: Whats Gaslighting?

[personal profile] crossy_woad 2016-05-15 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
If you were saying those things in a legitimate way (i.e. not trying to control someone) it's not really the same? It's a blunt way of putting things...

If you are doing things like that to contrl someone, take a good look at the behavior and change it. Don't kill yourself over it!

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 05:43 am (UTC)(link)
Take a chill pill first, then a few deep calming breaths. Saying those phrases aren't inherently bad, nor is it gaslighting. You're missing out on the context, i.e. saying those things in an effort to actively bullshit another person.