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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-14 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3419 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3419 ⌋

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[Shingeki no Kyojin]


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["Seitenkango, Shinyuu to" by Eroe]
















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Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 09:55 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, are your examples terrible. Like, HOLY SHIT. Those are some of the worst examples you could have chosen.

Just to START with, does it even occur to you that "I never said/did that" is also something a person BEING GASLIGHTED would say?

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

[personal profile] lady_dragoon 2016-05-15 10:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'd like to think you're smart enough to realize those phrases are gaslighting only when they're being used deliberately to confuse and disorient a victim. Perhaps I've misjudged you?

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-15 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

I understood what you were trying to get at with those examples, but honestly, in order for those to be decent examples you would have needed to elaborate a bit. As is, they were pretty bad.

Re: Whats Gaslighting?

[personal profile] lady_dragoon 2016-05-15 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Then take it up with literally every counseling and emotional abuse resource on the web, because that's where I got them from.