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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-28 03:27 pm

[ SECRET POST #3433 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3433 ⌋

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Re: Man-splaining wank: The reboot.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-28 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I dunno, when someone tells me the feel belittled by a term, am I really ok to say "No you're not stop being stupid"

Re: Man-splaining wank: The reboot.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-28 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
If they're a man? Ofcourse.
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Re: Man-splaining wank: The reboot.

[personal profile] dethtoll 2016-05-28 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
"Mansplaining" is supposed to be kind of belittling, I thought? It describes a widespread negative behavior that seems to be driven by gender inequality among other things. What would YOU call it?
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Re: Man-splaining wank: The reboot.

[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2016-05-29 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
The purpose of the word is to belittle people who do mansplain. It's like when guys complain about people using the word "creepy" as a descriptor, particularly about men coming into them. It's not supposed to make you feel good, it's supposed to negatively describe someone.
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Re: Man-splaining wank: The reboot.

[personal profile] lb_lee 2016-05-29 06:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Sometimes? YES!

I mentioned last time I had to leave a feminist site because they were transphobic as fuck. They saw being called transphobic as being belittling to them, but IT DOESN'T CHANGE THE TRANSPHOBIA! Like, I'm not going to weasel words into some nice little box of, "well, you seem to have some problematic feelings regarding me and my fellow trans people," because it's not the word that pisses them off, it's the fact that they're being told their behavior is unacceptable.

Sometimes, you really do have to stay, "no, stop being stupid."