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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-30 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3435 ⌋

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Re: WHY DOES NO ONE KNOW WHAT "FORGIVENESS" MEANS

(Anonymous) 2016-05-31 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Well no. But for me growing up, the definition of forgiveness was "that thing I was mad about before is no longer a problem and has no bearing on our future relationship, so please feel free to do it again."

It's toxic as hell, but that's how I was raised. And why I now have a policy to never forgive, ever.

Re: WHY DOES NO ONE KNOW WHAT "FORGIVENESS" MEANS

(Anonymous) 2016-05-31 06:05 am (UTC)(link)
Well, do you at least think that it's fucked up and likely to negatively affect your adult relationships if you don't do something about it?

Re: WHY DOES NO ONE KNOW WHAT "FORGIVENESS" MEANS

(Anonymous) 2016-05-31 11:10 am (UTC)(link)
It's toxic as hell

Reading comprehension. Learn you some.

Yes, it has affected my adult relationships, for the better. I do not forgive, ever, and as a result I have far fewer toxic as fuck people in my life.

No, I don't have to "do something about it" because a concern troll on the internet wants to win an argument.

Re: WHY DOES NO ONE KNOW WHAT "FORGIVENESS" MEANS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-01 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT, just kinda fascinated that this is the way someone would choose to live. You're acknowledging that your behavior is dysfunctional and denying it in the same breath by affirming that it is a productive way to be. But you do you. Sounds like your family did a real number on you.

Re: WHY DOES NO ONE KNOW WHAT "FORGIVENESS" MEANS

(Anonymous) 2016-06-01 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I figure it's a lot safer to just not leave that door open after seeing the bullshit that comes through it when I have in the past. I have absolutely no use for people who do me willful, intentional harm and then expect me to maintain any sort of contact with them.

Fuck that noise. Life is way too short to put up with people like that.