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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-30 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3435 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-31 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
My point was that you should treat people as you hope they would treat you--in this case, that you should forgive people who may have hurt you because you're an imperfect person who sometimes hurts others, and you presumably hope that they would not "immediately abandon" you without further ado.

And I'm saying that's selfish, toxic bullshit. If your only reason for forgiving someone is in the hope you get a second chance out of it, you are not worth forgiving. Period. Because you obviously don't know or care what you did wrong, you just care that people are mad at you for it.

Not OP, but I answered your question below that yes, I DO in fact expect to be dumped and cut off if I've hurt someone. Funny how you don't have a response to that.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-01 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
Ooookay, so treating others as you would hope to be treated is "selfish, toxic bullshit." Not touching that with a ten foot pole.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-01 03:24 pm (UTC)(link)
That wasn't what I said at all. Only doing something "good" after asking "what's in it for me?" is selfish, toxic bullshit.