[ SECRET POST #3435 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3435 ⌋

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Comments

[diet_poison]

Since when does cutting someone off require labeling them toxic?

And to expand on what you're saying - do you think it is always wrong to call people toxic?

[(Anonymous)]

This is a thread about "cutting people out of your life instead of forgiving them," and the justification that's repeatedly used for doing so is that they're "toxic," so at least for the purposes of this thread, cutting people off and labeling them toxic seem to go hand in hand.

And no, "toxic" is the best capsule descriptor of some people's patterns of behavior, but if you do call someone toxic, you shouldn't pretend that you aren't judging the fuck out of them.

[diet_poison]

Wait, so do you think it's an inherently wrong thing for people to be judgey, or not?

[(Anonymous)]

I see a lot of people around here acting like it is, but we form judgments all the time; it's what people do. I don't think it's inherently wrong. But if you want to judge other people, you shouldn't get indignant when others judge you. And you shouldn't pretend that it's not what you're doing.

[diet_poison]

ok well up there you were talking about "judging and condemning" people.

I think this conversation has deviated quite far from what it originally was at this point.