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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-30 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3435 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-02 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
Nope. If forgiving others were some sort of guarantee that you would be forgiven yourself if you needed it, if there were such a thing as a deposit in the forgiveness karma bank, then you might say that you were giving in order to get. But there's no guarantee, so you're not forgiving in order to receive some future benefit. It's not like social security, you're not paying into the system in order to take out at a future date. It's just treating others the way you would hope to be treated yourself.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-02 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
You just got done saying that the ONLY reason to forgive is in the hope you might benefit from it. Yes, that is fucking selfish and no matter what language you couch it in, it always will be.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-02 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
So by the same logic, the only reason to be nice to a woman is in the hope that she'll give you a blowjob someday when you really need one, right?

(Anonymous) 2016-06-02 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
What the fuck even is this?

(Anonymous) 2016-06-02 10:29 am (UTC)(link)
It's illustrating how self-serving Anon's argument is. "Forgive people in the hope they'll do the same for you when you need it" is the same creepy reasoning Nice Guys use when they're being nice to women in the hope of getting sexual favors. It's ridiculously selfish and entitled.

"Treat people how you want to be treated" is a selfish, toxic view because it's forcing your preference onto other people. What if they don't want to be treated the way you want to be treated?