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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-02 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #3438 ]


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Re: Family drama - how do I get past this?

(Anonymous) 2016-06-03 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
My advice would be to focus as much as possible on your relationship with your mother right now. Do you feel like it's mutual and caring and in a situation where you feel like you understand and respect each others' feelings? Not about your brother specifically but more generally?

It doesn't sound like it is - and to me, that's the important thing to focus and work on.

Re: Family drama - how do I get past this?

(Anonymous) 2016-06-03 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
OP

I'll admit, it's definitely not great at the moment. The extended family aren't helping at all with my dad being sick, and of course my brother is useless, so it's basically just the two of us taking care of everything (obviously her much more than me since she lives with him and is pretty much dealing with it 24/7; I've offered to stay with him so she can have a break, but she doesn't want to leave him). We're both worried about him, plus we both have really stressful jobs so I'm sure we're taking it out on each other, and we shouldn't. I guess it's probably more imporant to focus on that rather than worry about anything involving my brother.