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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-04 04:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #3440 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3440 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-05 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
All that means is that I'm aware that disagreeing with someone's opinion (particularly on interpretation of a work) is a touchy subject, and I'm acknowledging that.

Again, what does "being diplomatic" have to do with that? If it's not a personal attack, it's not a personal attack. By using that language, you ARE, in fact, acknowledging it's a personal attack.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-05 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
Well, no. Acknowledging that the subject in question is a hot button topic and that I'm trying to be careful isn't an attack. Going by your contributions to this thread, it seems you have a rather curious definition of what an "attack" is, though.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-05 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
Again, that has jack fucking shit to do with "diplomacy." The way you phrased it is essentially saying "well I know you're stupid, but I'm trying to be nice about it."

The fact that your answer to this is "oh, well you're just reading too much into it" rather than "okay, that might've come out wrong, sorry about that" is very, VERY telling.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-05 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
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The problem is that "I'm trying to be diplomatic, here" carries the implication that you are holding back and choosing your words carefully in order to maintain civility, when what you really want to say isn't civil at all.

That may not be how you meant it, but that's how it sounds.