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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-07 05:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #3443 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3443 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Thunderbirds Are Go! 2004 Movie)


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03.
[Top Gear]


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04.
[Chris Hardwick]


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05.
[Dylan O’Brien]


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06.
[A Little Princess by Frances Hodgson Burnett]


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07.
[Orphan Black]


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08.
[Captain America Civil War]


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[Drakengard 3]


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[Kiznaiver]


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[Doogie Howser, MD]









Notes:

Early because it's going to be a late day. :c

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Re: Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-06-08 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Stare at him/her with a focused, calm and blank expression. (This may or may not work, but I'm only going by the experience of having been deliberately broken down and humiliated by a narcissistic "parent." But it did keep me from breaking down in front of a boss with a minefield for a temper.)

It might also depend too. Are they shrieking at you, or just criticizing you in a reasonably calm tone? If they're shrieking, let them shriek, they're only letting themselves look bad. Report to HR later as boss has created witnesses anyway. If they're calmer, just listen to the words and remind yourself it's not an assessment of you as a character, it's just work stuff you need to note so you don't repeat certain mistakes in the future.