[ SECRET POST #3447 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3447 ⌋

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Comments

[iceyred]

How is expressing what I haven't seen, and giving a couple of facts (and including a source) unsympathetic.

Someone asking you to explain your statements isn't a lack of sympathy.

Also, I went to school with these kids, sometimes for years. If someone was screaming slurs in class, I would have heard it.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I recently read this article that provides a simple take on a certain manifestation of discrimination that Asian Americans face: http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/06/professional-burdens-model-minority-asian-americans/485492/

And as an Asian kid who survived the schoolyard, I recall no outright slurs but quite a few instances where my "funny" name became the subject of mockery. A few years ago (maybe?) there was a thread on here about the way people made fun of Shyamalan's name and I remember a few other people sharing similar experiences in the comments.

So you know... stuff like that.

[iceyred]

That's a good point about the names. The Filipino kids I knew had last names like Flores and Tomas, easy to pronounce. I can see how a name that's harder to pronounce would draw ugly attention.

The article's interesting, and provides an answer to the question about why the problems facing Asian-Americans face: y'all just don't talk about it as much. Going to school, 'thriving economically', and having high incomes are pretty normal, so Asians fade into the background and their problems fade with them.

That was interesting. Thanks for the answer.

[(Anonymous)]

It's hard to talk about it when someone's first reaction is to ask for examples, as if racism against Asians is so difficult to believe that they need citations.

[iceyred]

Racism against Asians isn't hard to believe, but it's not obvious what it looks like. When racism is reported and discussed, Asians aren't listed as dealing with the myriad of problems other races suffer from. I no longer live in an area with a large Asian population, and when I did their problems never popped up in the news or in casual discussion. How am I suppose to magically know how the Japanese are treated in America?

Refusing to explain the problem isn't really helpful.

[(Anonymous)]

Christ... anyone with a hard to pronounce name will get mocked regardless of race. My Czech name was mocked and I am white. Very white.

[(Anonymous)]

And that is xenophobia, also a problem. With Asian names it's a mixture of that and racism.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

While I am not whiter than sour cream ( I tend vaguely towards copper), I get what you mean.
My name is misspelled by everyone who doesn't hear me spell it out for them. My background includes currently irrelevant white petty nobility from Europe.

No oddly named individual is immune.

[(Anonymous)]

"If someone was screaming slurs in class, I would have heard it."

I've also never in my real life heard a white person call a black person a nigger out loud. I'm not going to be like "since I didn't hear it, I don't think it happens" though. If a black person told me someone had called them one, I'd believe them, you know? Horrible assholes exist and they may not be the majority or be out and proud about it in classrooms and public areas but they're out there and it's naive to think they aren't.

[iceyred]

You're taking what I said metaphorically. I meant it literally. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm saying it didn't happen in that situation.

[diet_poison]

I've heard it. Not very often, but I've heard it, and I've also heard a direct story from a friend about it happening in front of him at his job.

It's rare, but it happens.

People suck.