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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-12 03:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #3448 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3448 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 07:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Nothing wrong with just feeling like a little you time sometimes, anon.
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[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-06-12 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon! There's wrong with just wanting it to be about you sometimes! Me and LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLE in long term committed happy sexual relationships sometimes just wanna bust out a sex toy and have a warm fuzzy night to themselves.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Great pic for this secret. A++

Also, toys are fun, and you do you. Literally.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I want to go to there.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
The long armed mormon-esque dress makes it even better!

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
How do the dildo manufacturers know what a griffon penis looks like?

(And what does it look like?)

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
The same way everyone else does: furry art
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[personal profile] bur 2016-06-12 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Probably based off lion dicks?
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[personal profile] elaminator 2016-06-12 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao, I am wondering this as well. (Except not only about the griffon...but the dragons, etc.)

Anyway OP, nothing wrong with wanting to have some 'me' time now and then. *shrugs*
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[personal profile] morieris 2016-06-12 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
See this was my big question about the secret....what do all these scholongs look like wow that was put weirdly.
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[personal profile] nightscale 2016-06-12 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Ha, yeah I'm mostly just curious to know what all these dildo's look like.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm guessing Bad Dragon for the gryphon and at least some of the dragons. Mermen is probably Tails and Portholes. Other popular makers are are Frisky Beast, Exotic Erotics, and DamnAverage

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-13 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
That sculpture is making me horny.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you ever considered having your boyfriend use the dildos on you, or even letting him in on your fantasies anon? I don't think there is anything wrong with sometimes wanting to masturbate over sex, but if its making you feel guilty, maybe sharing it with him might help!

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-06-12 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey man, you like what you like and there's nothing wrong with that.

Also definitely nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex sometimes. Sex is a lot more work than a wank.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
There's nothing wrong with you, anon. As others have said. Just because you feel like getting off doesn't mean you specifically want sex with your boyfriend. I'm pretty sure almost no one in real life is 'always up' for sex.

If I want to get all Internet Psychologist for a minute, is it possible you've accepted some of the ideas that sexuality, especially female sexuality if you are female, belongs to others and only exists for the benefit of others? And not that it's a normal natural part of yourself. So it's easy to feel guilty and like you're selfishly 'wasting' pleasure on yourself instead of letting your partner decide and benefit from it, even if that's hogwash.

(I mean obviously, insert long ramble about how agreeing on the level of intimacy is important and your boyfriend is allowed to feel however he feels without there being an inherent obligation on your part to put his wants over your own needs and partnerships are messy and complicated)
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[personal profile] lb_lee 2016-06-12 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
No shame in that, OP. I mean, I'm married, it doesn't magically make all sexual urges go directly to spouse!

But seriously you have to say where that photo came from. WHERE IS DICKBEACH???

(Anonymous) 2016-06-13 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Dickbeach. Heh. Now I want to know, too, just so I can make a sign that says "Dickbeach or Bust," take a picture holding it, and then a second picture with a big stupid grin on my face in front of the--well, sculpture, I guess. Bonus round: find a topless beach, take off shirt, take selfie holding sign below boobs: "Why not both?"

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you feel annoyed or offended when your boyfriend just wants to curl up with some really esoteric porn and give himself a hand? Of course not, as long as you're not being deprived. So why should you feel guilty about the same thing? Rock on.
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Hey, important question

[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-06-12 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Is boyfriend actually good at sex (at least, the sex you want)? Or compatible with you, anyway? Is there a reason you don't want to use the toys with him (thing is you might and it's just not in the secret).

I honesty thought I just had a low sex drive. I liked the intimacy but sex just didn't do that much for me. I figured I'd just get used to not getting off unless I did it myself, and told others and myself I was okay with that. It turns out another relationship shot mine through the roof and orgasms are no longer impossible.

I don't know if you're reading the same stuff I am, but most of the sex advice aimed at women is more about managing your disappointment at a lack of satisfaction with a partner rather than actually finding it. People just feel guilty for not liking what they're supposed to like and attribute everything to stress, etc. There's nothing wrong with liking your alone time, and I might be reading too much into your secret, but please make sure you're taking care of yourself. You deserve someone who works for you, especially if you're high libido!
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Re: Hey, important question

(Anonymous) 2016-06-13 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Here comes Chard, telling you to break up with your boyfriend no matter what.
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-06-13 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
Here comes anon, a sad little pretzel all salty and twisted

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(Anonymous) 2016-06-13 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Where is this photo from?!?

(Anonymous) 2016-06-13 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
According to google, http://artisticthings.com/freudenthal-verhagen/