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fandomsecrets2016-06-12 03:33 pm
[ SECRET POST #3448 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3448 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)Also, toys are fun, and you do you. Literally.
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(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)(And what does it look like?)
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Anyway OP, nothing wrong with wanting to have some 'me' time now and then. *shrugs*
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Also definitely nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex sometimes. Sex is a lot more work than a wank.
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(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)If I want to get all Internet Psychologist for a minute, is it possible you've accepted some of the ideas that sexuality, especially female sexuality if you are female, belongs to others and only exists for the benefit of others? And not that it's a normal natural part of yourself. So it's easy to feel guilty and like you're selfishly 'wasting' pleasure on yourself instead of letting your partner decide and benefit from it, even if that's hogwash.
(I mean obviously, insert long ramble about how agreeing on the level of intimacy is important and your boyfriend is allowed to feel however he feels without there being an inherent obligation on your part to put his wants over your own needs and partnerships are messy and complicated)
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But seriously you have to say where that photo came from. WHERE IS DICKBEACH???
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(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)Hey, important question
I honesty thought I just had a low sex drive. I liked the intimacy but sex just didn't do that much for me. I figured I'd just get used to not getting off unless I did it myself, and told others and myself I was okay with that. It turns out another relationship shot mine through the roof and orgasms are no longer impossible.
I don't know if you're reading the same stuff I am, but most of the sex advice aimed at women is more about managing your disappointment at a lack of satisfaction with a partner rather than actually finding it. People just feel guilty for not liking what they're supposed to like and attribute everything to stress, etc. There's nothing wrong with liking your alone time, and I might be reading too much into your secret, but please make sure you're taking care of yourself. You deserve someone who works for you, especially if you're high libido!
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