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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-12 03:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #3448 ]


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Re: relationship vent

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
When most people are that mad, all they want is a sympathetic ear who will tell tbem that, yes, their anger is justified. So just be supportive and if she starts talking about rash decisions, don't offer alternatives or tell her their bad ideas, just say "that's an option. Why don't you sleep on it before making any big decisions, though."

And if she turns on you for saying that, stand up and say you're only trying to helP and you're not going to be screamed at for it, and leave the room.

Re: relationship vent

(Anonymous) 2016-06-12 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I try and be sympathetic, but I just get so stressed out when she starts trying to take action when upset, its hard for me to not try and help her work through things logically. I know that isn't what people want, but its generally how I cope with things. I will try and get better at not doing it though, thank you for your advice