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⌈ Secret Post #3448 ⌋

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Re: relationship vent

[lb_lee]

Ooh man, I actually have a similar thing, OP! So just offering sympathy. In my case, my boyfriend tends to go straight to mad, skip all other emotions, and he's used to seeing other people getting angry as a sign they give a shit.

I... have trouble with anger. Both feeling it, and witnessing other people feeling it. So I would shut down and get quieter and quieter and more placating (because that's MY stress response), and it'd only make him madder because he'd see it as a sign that I was looking down on him or didn't care enough to get upset myself. And he'd try and get ME angry because then he'd be reassured he'd care, while I am like "NO I MUST NEVER GET ANGRY AT THE PEOPLE I CARE ABOUT THAT IS VERBOTEN."

Obviously, this wasn't ideal. Thankfully, now that he's actually SEEN me rip-roaring mad a few times, things are better.