[ SECRET POST #3448 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3448 ⌋

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Re: relationship vent

[(Anonymous)]

So talk to her about it sometime when you're both calm. But forcing yourself to stay and try to make soothing noises through it isn't helping either of you - you need to look after yourself, and you need to make sure she knows she can and should look to someone who's capable of supporting her in the way she needs to be supported (letting her rant without getting panicky) when she's angry.

You'll still be there for her when she's calmed down and it's time to figure out solutions. You'll still be there when she's sad, or sick, or injured. You'll still be here when she's happy and needs someone to celebrate her successes with her. Needing to excuse yourself when she's angry because your trauma doesn't play well with her manner of expressing anger doesn't mean you're not there for her.