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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-13 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3449 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3449 ⌋

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Re: relationship anon from yesterday

(Anonymous) 2016-06-14 07:00 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you have to do anything? You know, a big part of your problem is of your own making. You seem to think that you need to fix it, make peace, whatever. It doesn't sound like either your friend or your gf has actually asked for your assistance in any way, and even if they had, I'm not sure it's your job to mediate their argument.

What you CAN do is request that they keep this fight between themselves and not drag you into it. (A request that will be more effective if you quit inserting yourself in the middle.) You can also do what people suggested yesterday and absent yourself from all the anger and yelling. You have a good reason, and if your gf is reasonable, she'll understand that you're not abandoning her, you just need space for the sake of your own mental health. If your bed isn't far away enough, go farther. Take a walk. Go grocery shopping. Visit the library, or a park. Do something that means meeting new people and making new friends so that you're not so isolated... which is a really good idea even if your gf and your friend weren't fighting.

This is not your problem. Don't make this your problem.