[ SECRET POST #3450 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #3450 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Cracked After Hours]


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03.
[Disney's Sword in the Stone]


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04.
[Pokémon Sun and Moon]


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05.
(Charlie Hunnam)


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06.
[Jodie Foster]


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07.
[New Blood]


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08.
[DC Rebirth]


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09.
[Jane the virgin / Juana la virgen]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 29 secrets from Secret Submission Post #493.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[dancing_clown]

This explanation sounds fine, other than wondering why it matters. But your first post was kind of mean sounding.

[blitzwing]

This explanation sounds fine, other than wondering why it matte

Different advice for different situations.

But your first post was kind of mean sounding.

You can take it that way if you want to. Lots of people don't have friends, and I've seen a few secrets specifically about not having any. I don't know what's inherently mean about "Do you not have friends?"

[dancing_clown]

"Don't you have friends?" with no other information seems like a judgment to me. But different strokes, I guess.

[(Anonymous)]

It's not inherently mean, but it was mean sounding. Because society considers it something shameful and so people are dicks about it and if you say something that can be read in that light, people might read it in that light.

So in other words, it was mean sounding because it sounded like something someone would say if they were trying to be mean.

SA

[(Anonymous)]

Also, you have never displayed any signs of caring in the slightest if you were acting like a dick, so it's not like it's an unreasonable assumption to make

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

Yep. Not only was it rather callous sounding, but it was blitzwing, so...

Re: SA

[blitzwing]

When have I ever acted like a dick to anyone though?

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

You do it all the time.

The fact that you're oblivious to your tone and arrogant enough to think anyone who thinks you come off hostile or condescending is just misreading you doesn't actually make you come off as something other than hostile, condescending, and kind of a dick.

Re: SA

[blitzwing]

"Hostile" applies to intent...and since I'm the only one that actually knows my intent, I do kinda get to decide whether someone is misreading my intent as hostile or not. Dunno who else could be the arbitrator of that.

The fact that you're oblivious to your tone [...] condescending

I dunno how you reached that conclusion, given that I've owned up to and apologized for wording things in a condescending manner in the past.

kind of a dick

Perhaps we disagree on what makes someone a dick. I think so long as someone's intentions are good, they're not a dick. And my intentions are as pure as the driven snow.

[blitzwing]

This is a fandom space though. It's okay to do things/have traits that society deems weird/loserish here. I can see where someone might assume I meant it that way. But I still think it's a weird thing to assume.