case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-22 07:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3458 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3458 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 33 secrets from Secret Submission Post #494.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-23 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
You seem angry. Have you tried ending your current relationship? I hear that solves most problems.

(Anonymous) 2016-06-23 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
I think the odds are that any advice columnist who DIDN'T give that advice a lot would probably be fucking up

there are actually a lot of bad relationships out there

(Anonymous) 2016-06-23 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt - This. TBH, I think people ought to give this advice more often. Previous generations of advice columnists were very big on keeping a marriage intact, and frankly, sometimes that's just not a good idea. There's nothing wrong with breaking up, and if it saves two people from being miserable, why the hell not? There's no gold pot at the end of the rainbow for people who remain trapped in shitty relationships just so they can avoid being single.

My rule of thumb is: is this relationship less than six months old and already going to shit? Then break up. It won't get better. This is your honeymoon phase, and if your partner is cheating on you, treating you like dirt or behaving like you don't have thoughts and feelings of your own, BREAK. THE. FUCK. UP. Cut your losses. Don't do the whole sunk cost fallacy bullshit.