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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-26 03:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #3462 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3462 ⌋

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Re: I'll make a secret about this later, but I have to say it right now:

(Anonymous) 2016-06-26 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sure you mean well.

But if you're trying to motivate people--excuse me, "whiny women on the internet who think they're so fucking fragile"--then you are failing miserably.

Everyone is an individual, with their own unique pasts. You don't get to erase or invalidate that with a broad brushstroke of your definition of tough love. These words might be effective for some folks, but for others, the words could break those who truly are more fragile than most. Telling people to basically get over their pain and fears, because life is shit and unpredictable doesn't work. It ignores the fact that people are complex, that compassion, grief, and strength can all exist in the same space. You don't always get over something by simply ignoring the pain. Do it enough times, it might even harden your heart, or make you unsympathetic to others' struggles.

Maybe your time is better spent watching a movie with that lesson.