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⌈ Secret Post #3463 ⌋

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[Dororon Enma-kun Meeramera]

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[Megazone23pt2's Bodysuit 23]

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[Steve Shives]

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[Awful Hospital]

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[Rick & Michonne/Richonne | The Walking Dead]

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[The West Wing, The Newsroom]

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[Zootopia]

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[Archie Comics]

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I believe it. Probably because romantic attraction and physical attraction are very distinct and separate for me. I wouldn't think that would be such a controversial opinion since people are physically attracted to and have sex with people they aren't in love with all the time, so I don't see why the opposite situation where people are romantically attracted to someone but not physically attracted is so unbelievable, but I get a lot of arguments about this.

Personally, I'm not asexual but I'd be fine with a relationship with no sex. My last relationship was kind of complicated in this area. My ex was a virgin who wasn't sure if she was asexual or had a low sex drive or what and there was a lot of time where she was trying to get comfortable with just the idea and nothing was happening. Didn't bother me. There were plenty of other things for us to do together and I can take care of myself if I want an orgasm. That's not what finally broke us up. Even when there was no sex involved, my relationship with her was different than my relationship with my friends, which is the part that people seem to have trouble with.

my relationship with her was different than my relationship with my friends, which is the part that people seem to have trouble with.

That's something I've heard a lot, "if there's no sex then there's no relationship, it's just friendship!", which I don't get. Friends with benefits are a thing and everyone acknowledges that it's not the same thing as an actual relationship so obviously sex isn't the only thing that differentiates a romantic relationship from a friendship.

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