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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-28 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #3464 ]


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Re: A point of curiosity

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-06-29 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on the context, really. The idea of a "team mom" is way different than involving some kind of daddy or mommy kink in either fic or RL. Referring to someone as a parental figure outside the bedroom =/= inside the bedroom. It's also different if, say, people who are parents or prospective parents go around calling each other "mom" and "dad".

Usually an older man asking a younger lover to call him daddy is NOT THAT. It generally implies ownership and innate authority in a way I find really disgusting (and also different from a master/slave relationship in that the M/s titles don't automatically invoke age or gender dynamics). Plus, the incest connotations don't really help.

I have yet to find something with quite those implications in an older woman/younger partner scenario, but I imagine if I did I would also be fairly squicked.

Edit: I'm actually less squicked by scenarios that are literal incest than these sorts of kinks. It's infinitely less creepy to me that someone would just come out and call an apple an apple instead of inserting a weird sexual dominance situation into their views of familial relationships.
Edited 2016-06-29 04:24 (UTC)