[ SECRET POST #3465 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3465 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Spinal Tap (scene is from the movie 'This Is Spinal Tap’)]


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03.
[Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston]


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04.
(Gravity Falls, Pinecest)


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05.
[Spyro The Dragon (1st gen), Zinda Blake aka Lady Blackhawk, Ev Crawford aka Starling]


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06.
[Parks and Rec]


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07.
[Shadowhunters]


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08.
[Kabaneri of the Iron Fortress]


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09.
[Teen Wolf]











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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 18 secrets from Secret Submission Post #495.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[chardmonster]

....most people don't want to fuck most of their friends, dude

[(Anonymous)]

OP

This includes any potential romantic interests who are romantic but increasingly unsexy.

[(Anonymous)]

I mean...that sounds like a fear of commitment and/or having impossibly high standards.

[(Anonymous)]

What? I'm willing to engage in relationships and marry someone but being less sexually attracted to people I know is not a fear of commitment. You can commit to someone and love them without being sexually attracted to them. You can do it even if you find the idea of having sex with them offputting.

[(Anonymous)]

Or the person just isn't sexy to them anymore? That doesn't make their standards "impossibly high". It just means for whatever reason, the person lost their attractiveness.

[(Anonymous)]

OP

No no people were never attractive in the first place. But the more I get to know people the more offputting it gets. Going from 0 to having the thought of having sex with them being actively disliked. This has no bearing on how much I like or love them romantically.

[chardmonster]

....why are you still seeing them then?

[(Anonymous)]

...because you don't need to have sex with someone to like or love them romantically?

[chardmonster]

Real talk: are you just really inexperienced?

This isn't an rpg. You don't just keep spending time with them and hope you level up to feelings.

You aren't attracted to them! And that's okay! But don't stick around expecting that to happen

[(Anonymous)]

OP

I honestly have no idea what you're talking about. I replied to the end of the thread here, maybe the additional info will help you out.