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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-29 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3465 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3465 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Spinal Tap (scene is from the movie 'This Is Spinal Tap’)]


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[Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston]


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(Gravity Falls, Pinecest)


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[Spyro The Dragon (1st gen), Zinda Blake aka Lady Blackhawk, Ev Crawford aka Starling]


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[Parks and Rec]


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[Shadowhunters]


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[Kabaneri of the Iron Fortress]


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[Teen Wolf]











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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
There may be a term for it, but not one specifically sex-related. It's not unusual to want to keep things you don't like out of a relationship with a person you care about strongly, even if you might be willing to do those things (or even need to do them) with others. Like maybe you don't want to hire your cousin to build your deck because you don't want the family relatiobship to get in the way of the business transaction and you don't want business to get in the way of your relationships with family. Or maybe you are very elderly and would prefer a paid care-giver change your adukt diapers rather than your grown kids and grandkids do it.

In your case, you aren't interested in having sex and the person you care about isn't interested in having sex, so the two of you having sex sounds like an especially terrible idea. The thought of having sex with someone you don't give two shits about feels slightly less objectionable because your not making someone you care about feel uncomfortable and vice-versa.

I don't think it's a particular variation of sexuality.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
Hmm nah, I wasn't claiming it was a variation of sexuality, just asking if there was a word to describe that particular phenomenon. Plain old asexual is fine to me.

That's a good point about wanting to keep things you're not interested in out of your personal relationships though.