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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-29 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3465 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3465 ⌋

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[Spinal Tap (scene is from the movie 'This Is Spinal Tap’)]


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[Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston]


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(Gravity Falls, Pinecest)


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[Spyro The Dragon (1st gen), Zinda Blake aka Lady Blackhawk, Ev Crawford aka Starling]


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[Parks and Rec]


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[Shadowhunters]


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[Kabaneri of the Iron Fortress]


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[Teen Wolf]











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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
DA

What you said. To me, what makes a relationship romantic, or what makes it different than friendship is defined by the people in the relationship. To a lot of people it seems to be that friendship+sex=romance, but since friends with benefits are a thing, that equation doesn't work for me. Personally, there's no specific behavior, or set of behaviors, I can point to and say "that's romance." It depends on the specific people involved, but I do feel like *in general* asexuals probably have a different definition of romance than people who aren't asexual.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
OP

I'm all for AIRT saying "this is not what would count as a romance with me." That's totally up to them as one part of their relationship to define what their romance needs to contain. I totally respect that and obviously I would say I'm incapable of having a romance with AIRT.

Saying "your relationship doesn't count because it doesn't fit my definition of what romance is," though, isn't very cool.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2016-06-30 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Yeah, I'm agreeing with you.

Saying "your relationship doesn't count because it doesn't fit my definition of what romance is," though, isn't very cool.

Definitely not.